The Secret Ingredient

Somethings take experience and as much knowledge as you can get to create success. Have you ever tried a dish that somebody made and asked them what they did or how they made it only to have them tell you they used a secret ingredient? How did that make you feel? The odds are that you probably wondered in your mind "what could that secret ingredient possibly be?" You constantly keep trying to figure out what it could be but time and time again they never tell. The problem with that is, how can you make the recipe if you don't even know the secret ingredient? Today we are talking about the secret ingredient to relationships (any kind) and there is one secret ingredient to make it work. The great thing about this one, is you actually get to learn what it is...Now think about when you bake something or cook something for the first time. Do you ever master it right away? Chances are it takes you a few tries to actually get it right. Sometimes the problem is the timing, other times it's forgetting a step or not following the step exactly. The one thing is, it might be something small but it still makes a big difference. With relationships it takes communication, trust and patience to make it work. Once you've been doing it and in it for a while it gets easier.

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