My Parents fault (or is it mine)

We've all said it before; whether we've blamed our parents for something, or our siblings or our friends, we've all done it. "She did it!" "It wasn't me, it was him!" "If you'd stop doing this (insert answer) than I'd do this (insert answer)." We've all done it from time to time and maybe it's time we start thinking...What if it's not them...but us. I know you're probably thinking "no way! It wasn't me" but in all honesty, it probably was. Maybe your parents are complaining about how you did something wrong and you feel like it's their fault because they always nag you about it. Or maybe you blame your best friend because your relationship is rocky. You might even blame one of your siblings of stealing your things because you don't trust them much but in all honesty it's actually you who loses everything. You may read this and think "that is me. She's making me feel so bad now" but that isn't my goal. In fact, I am actually speaking to myself right now! These are all things that I am guilty of and I have it on my heart to share with those who I believe also struggle with the same thing, how we can get better. First before you can get better is you have to realize this. If you are still blaming the people than your going to go no where. Secondly, you must apologize to those you have heart and affected by this.

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